Today was one of the hardest day of my life... I had to send the following three messages ( mobile text messages ) to all my friends..
" Hey all, Sad news... ***** and me have decided to call it quits.. Not because the love has diminished or something..but..these things happen...We have enjoyed our journey together, and will cherish it all our life. Though we aren't BF-GF anymore, we have decided nothing would change with regards to our friendship..we were and will always be best friends. We both hope that you continue to shower us with your love and support, cause we really need it during this rough time... "
" Though the reality of the situation has not hit us yet.. and we still act like a couple .. heh heh..its tough for a two year learning process to be unlearned in a day.. The people who should know about this breakup have already been told so via sms.. We would really like it if the word doesn't leak out... and also if we don't talk about it when we are together..maybe in the future if situations are ok..we might give it another shot, but we'll have to wait and watch "
" The reason for the breakup is a pretty personal thing.. atleast as far as ***** is concerned.. so we'll share it with you guys sometime when both of us are comfortable with it..till then we both hope you all understand and trust our judgment on this matter.. Henry D once said "For those who love.. time is eternity.." so both of us will wait.. See what the future has in store for us.. Until then.. the memories of our times together will always accompany us.. always giving us hope... "
The worst part is that we were supposed to celebrate our anniversary today..irony always has a funny way of showing itself...But the support our friends showed us was dazzling (More than 100msgs and counting...and several calls)... Anyway here's hoping for the best.. all good things must come to an end...La Bruyere once said "At the beginning and at the end of love, the two lovers are embarrassed to find themselves alone"... but no we are not alone...we never will...
Each morning as I awaken you're the reason I smile, You're the reason I love.
Saturday, April 09, 2005
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Yeah that's true i guess... but i dont want to get over it... it was such a fairy tale, since the very start... two amazing years...
The thing is we've been speaking more now..longer duration phone calls.. more text msgs... wierd breakup..v know..but neither one of us, wants to let go.. but have to..!! Allan K(i think) once said "The grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for"..So that's what i've been doing...hoping.. i have something to hope for....
i wonder one should be sad reading it that a couple has broken down, or happy that a timeless friendship has emerged??
I believe (but I may be wrong) that everything happens for the best. Right now it may not seem so, but in the longer run you will understand what I mean. After all I am older if not wiser :-)
As someone once said to me .." We may not be a couple for ever but we are going to be best friends for ever".
I must appreciate the maturity with which both of you have handled this break up.
*hugs
Shilpa
Thanks Shilps( i call all my 'shilpa' friends that ) :P .. we both are fine..really.. we knew it would end... her parents are pretty orthodox.. so chances of her having a 'love marriage' are bleak..so v both have to cope up with the changes.. and as u say everything happens for the best... i really hope so...
Thanks, u all, for ur support ..
These things happen.
Dont worry too much about it. Time is a Great healer. We'll all be there for you.
The 1st Fan
OMG very brave decision...you're really two very strong people...
:)
God bless.
Thanks Shub..really appretiate that...
:)
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